So I was scrolling through a number of gay blogs around cyber space when I stumbled upon this really cute and sweet looking Singaporean gay couple. So I went about reading through their entries feeling all "diabetical" from the severe amounts of sweetness until I came across an entry of theirs. It was hate filled and generalised in its nature.
Yes folks its a bi bashing entry.
Believe me, I take enough shit from the straight community as it is sometimes. But then having all these petty, bitchy, dainty, dramatic fairies talking smack about bi lads being unreliable, hedonistic serial heart breakers in the most generalised of fashions make me roll my eyes a little and go "well fuck you too mate".
Now really, I'm aware there are plenty of dicks that are among bi guys. Hell there are plenty of douchebags and losers in both straight and gay circles too. So how dare you lot seek to associate and tar brush an entire sexual orientation based on your personal over dramatized experiences. You ought to be ashamed of yourselves really. I actually have gay friends that bitch about me to their other gay friends warning them about me being bi and therefore being unreliable for any long term happiness. Oh fuck you lot really, that's next level two faced behaviour there. News always travels and I will come to know of it whether you realise it or not.
Then there's the other bullshit attitude of "bi erasure". The attitude that bi people don't and cannot actually exist. Again these wankers think that just because they were born liking boys or girls exclusively, everyone must therefore line up in their neat little ideas of reality and subscribe to only their perception of what humans are attracted to. The height of arrogance and ignorance I should say.
Oh you're just confused.
You're just gay in denial.
I don't believe in bi people.
You'll become gay eventually.
How about no. No, no, no. I like how you lot deny my attraction to females as me being confused or in denial. It implies that I am incapable of making cogent decisions and am impaired in my faculties. I'm perfectly aware of myself thank you.
In a world where there is enough hate towards gay and transgendered people, I don't need pink bigots telling me how to live my life or calling my set of attractions wrong or belittling my sexual identity. You expect the straight world not to judge you and yet you lot judge a subset of your very own LGBT community. That is not to say all gay people do this obviously. Just a far too sizeable proportion of them, unfortunately. Stupid has no boundaries I guess, across borders, nations and sexual identities.
PS: If any of you terasa, tersinggung or perasan its quite possible that you are guilty by association.
I have to admit I was like how most people think about bi in not pleasant waya. Only after I got to know my girl friend BF (He is bi).
ReplyDeleteI understand they not what we normally think of, and not all bi are jerks, they also got many issues same with us. Able to choose which gender/sex you want to be seems privilage, but also a curse to them sometimes.
It is very sad even gays also judging them while we also asking people stop judging us.
Haha man tell me about it the whole gift and curse thing. I always maintained that being bi comes with a separate set of issues and responsibilities we have to tackle that are rather complicated in its nature.
DeleteBut then again maybe its in our human nature to judge unfortunately. Hell, gays judge and discriminate against transexuals and feminine lads/butch lasses too. Oh well.
Hahaha..I exaggerated. He just told me it's not all good when able to choose especially in certain situation. Well, I also didn't ask more. xD
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